I disagree. Politically, he may be disloyal, but personally he’s loyal to the other nations as friends. That’s an important distinction that’s always been cemented in the series.
Ex: Even though they were enemies during WW2, he still greets France as a friend when they’re stranded.
The decisions of his bosses are not reflective of his character as a person.
Side note: Italy only met Germany in WW1 after he had switched sides by the way + being a player doesn’t always mean cheating on a spouse. It can mean having several non-committal flings, one-night stands etc. while still remaining single.